This book is one of many NDE (Near Death Experience)
bestsellers in the recent past, including: Heaven Is For Real, 90 Minutes In
Heaven, The Boy Who Came Back From Heaven, and, how can we forget, Sylvia
Browne’s Life on the Other Side: A Psychic's Tour of the Afterlife (this last
one is a joke, but only half mine). ‘Heaven’ in the title of Proof Of Heaven isn’t the traditional
concept of heaven, and it isn’t a traditional Christian message, which might
lend it more credibility since it isn’t as predictable. In the end, I always
think the real-life stories that alternate in these books with the NDE vision are
often as interesting, or more so, than the ‘visit’ to the after-life.
NDE’s are fascinating as psychological, not necessarily preternatural,
events; and they are especially interesting as poetic/artistic language expressing
a person’s deepest desires and darkest fears (“They should have sent a poet!”--
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_BYTZVmDHk).
I only have minor doubts from time to time about the complete honesty and veracity
of these accounts. As we all know, when you’re using words for something that
is ‘beyond explanation’, like most of reality, it’s easy to embellish, exaggerate,
offer post factum interpretation, and otherwise explain and apply rather than
tell. In other words (see, I do it too), if it don’t fit, you MAKE it fit. Into
the brain, that is.
Now, I’ll be honest, the nagging thought has fluttered
against me many times that Dr. Alexander is fabricating a lot of his NDE
because he wants to comfort people with something ‘tangible’ they can hold on
to when they lose loved ones. I wouldn’t go so far as to say he’d make it all
up to sell a book, but… that is how religions are born. For the record, I think
he’s being honest, but I know too well the meaning of Nietzsche’s words, “He
who does not know how to tell a lie, does not know what the truth is” to think
that it is not beyond any man—who, like in the case of Alexander, clearly wants
to give others hope beyond this life—to fudge on a few details, or artificially
tie up loose ends to make the story more ‘tell-able’. This is actually a fairly
normal practice when it comes to retelling one’s dreams, and is known in
psychoanalysis as “secondary revision.”
As far as having a credible, reputable, sane person write
their story of something nearly unbelievable that happened to them, you couldn’t
have picked someone better than Dr. Eben Alexander, a neurosurgeon with lots of
experience. He has taught at Duke University Medical Center, Brigham and
Women's Hospital, Harvard Medical School, University of Massachusetts Medical
School, and the University of Virginia Medical School. He was a former agnostic,
and skeptic with regard to NDE’s. When he speaks, people listen. Including
Oprah, may she live forever.
The ‘proof’ from his title comes from the fact that he truly
believes the E. coli bacteria that caused his meningitis shut down most of his
brain, especially the parts that could have enabled him to have dreams or
thinking of any kind. He states, “My doctors have told me that according to all
the brain tests they were doing, there was no way that any of the functions
including vision, hearing, emotion, memory, language, or logic could possibly
have been intact.” This becomes the lynchpin for his assertion that “true
thought is pre-physical”, and consciousness transcends the brain and is not reliant
on it. His evidence is more anecdotal here, but he is very, very passionate
about stating this belief. Almost too passionate, maybe even desperate. Do you
ever get that feeling that someone is trying to convince themselves more than you?
But, then again, it’s hard to dismiss his plea for understanding when he
alleges that he believes this experience was as real, and as dear to his heart,
as anything in this terrestrial plane, including, I’m assuming, his love for
his wife and children.
But here’s the crux of the whole tale: “You are loved and
cherished, dearly, forever. You have nothing to fear. There is nothing you can
do wrong.” And, “All is well.” Now, who can possibly have a problem with that
takeaway? He says “Love is the basis of everything…it is the reality of realities.”
Yes. If people could really believe that, there’d probably be less problems in
the world. Imagine if people truly realized they were part of it all, and
harm/good done to another is harm/good done to one’s self. And, for what it’s
worth, the new world that entertained Alexander’s in his
vision/dream/experience was beautiful, if a little boring sounding at time for
personalities like mine. Now, for those looking for rest from a life they’ve
found to be fatiguing and jading, in this ‘heaven’ they would be able to sleep
well for millennia. The other pros to this kind of story being told: Alexander’s
family says that he is more ‘present’ now with them than he has ever been, he
encourages people with his story to believe that there is hope and the best is
yet to come, and his foundation/organization at Eternea.org seems to want to
encourage dialogue and critical thought in and between religious-scientific communities.
He wants to use his story to do some good in the world. And maybe start a new
religion. Which sort-of concerns me. But…other than that…
Not as a rebuttal to Alexander’s testimony, though it may
unhinge some of his conclusions about
his experience, I have assembled a narrative comparison between statements in
Alexander’s book, and Christopher Bache’s Dark
Night, Early Dawn, a work about trans-personal psychology and non-ordinary
states of consciousness. Bache describes experiences in states responsibly and
safely induced by psychedelics, NDE’s, and meditative practices; and the comparisons
between some of his personal accounts in the book which he achieved by the use
of psychedelics, and Alexander’s account are extraordinary. This, I believe,
serves to illustrate that a person need not be brain-dead or literally ‘out of
body’ to experience an ecstatic, revelatory ‘journey’ which provides sensory-cognitive
stimulation that feels very, very real and profound. See the Narrative
Comparison at the end of this review.
I truly believe we all need a sense of our connectedness and
indispensability in the cosmos, to feel loved “dearly and forever”; and this
book, I’m sure, provides that for many. However, I think that message is
available to us in many different manifestations. It would be a pity if the
only way to feel a ‘part of it all’ and really be presently mindful and joyful
in life would be to die and see the afterlife, or read a book about someone who
did. Also, there still is the matter of faith and self-affirmation that we need
to help us appreciate the opportunity that life is and every moment in it. Do we
loathe our lives, our selves, so much that we’re so anxious to cash it in for
what comes next? It sounds so ungrateful. According to every religion, isn’t
there a reason we’re here in the first place? And as far as pure materialism
goes, there’s nowhere else to be! Let’s not blow it, or one day we’ll be
looking back regretting we wasted it wishing we were somewhere else.
Primordial portal
Narrative Comparisons From
Dark Night, Early Dawn by Christopher Bache, and Proof Of Heaven by Eben Alexander.
Bache/Alexander—
I was first taken back to the primordial beginning before
creation and there experienced human evolution in the context of a larger
cosmic agenda. (218)
At the time, I might have called it
‘primordial’…as if I had regressed back to some state of being from the very
beginnings of life, as far back, perhaps, as the primitive bacteria that,
unbeknownst to me, had taken over my brain and shut it down. (28)
Loss of boundaries
Early on I had the experience of the dissolution of
boundaries. I was experiencing the physical world, and everywhere boundaries
were melting away. [I kept saying] “No boundaries. No boundaries anywhere.”
There was not even a real boundary separating the physical and nonphysical
dimensions of existence, and I experienced the worlds of matter and spirit as a
seamless whole. (67)
I didn’t have a body—not one that I
was aware of anyway. I was simply…there,
in this place of pulsing, pounding darkness…I was simply a lone point of
awareness in a timeless red-brown sea…There was no difference between ‘me’ and
the half-creepy, half-familiar element that surrounded me. (29, 30, 31)
Just as my awareness was both
individual and yet at the same time completely unified with the universe, so
also did the boundaries of what I experienced as my ‘self’ at times contract,
and at other times expand to include all that exists throughout eternity. The
blurring of the boundary between my awareness and the realm around me went so
far at times that I became the entire universe. (160)
Thought-environment control
I discovered, much to my surprise, that the experiential
field within the circle was responsive to my thoughts. (67)
I slowly discovered [that] to know
and be able to think of something is all one needs in order to move toward it.
To think…was to make it appear, and to long for higher worlds was to bring
myself there. (70)
Light and unifying being
I was brought to an encounter with a unified energy field
underlying all physical existence. I was confronting an enormous field of
blindingly bright, incredibly intense energy. Though the energy was not
difficult to look at, experiencing it was extremely intense and carried with it
a sense of ultimate encounter. This energy was the single energy that comprised
all existence. (67-68)
Something had appeared in the
darkness…it radiated fine filaments of white-gold light, and as it did so the
darkness around me began to splinter and break apart…you could not look at anything in that world at all, for
the word at itself implies a
separation that did not exist there. Everything was distinct, yet everything
was also a part of everything else. (39, 46)
Choice in multiple dimensions
Choice governed all experience. Different beings who were
all part of Being Itself had simply chosen these manifold experiences. (68)
Free will is of central importance
for our function in the earthly realm: a function that, we will all one day
discover, serves the much higher role of allowing our ascendance in the
timeless alternate dimension. We—the spiritual beings currently inhabiting our
evolutionarily developed mortal brains and bodies…make the real choices. (84)
Higher awareness then, limited clarity now
I simply can’t yet fit the understandings I had into my
ordinary, smaller mind. This does not lead me to question or doubt my
experience. Even though I have lost large sections of the experience, I retain
an unshakable epistemological certainty that this knowing was of a higher order
than any knowing I am capable of in my ordinary consciousness. (69)
The problem is finding a frame of reference. The only
categories I have available to me are simplistic approximations that can give
only a vague sense of it. (72)
The experience I’m struggling to
give you the vaguest, most completely unsatisfying picture of, was the single
most real experience of my life. (41)
My awareness was larger now. So
large, it seemed to take in the entire universe. (95)
It was all so real…almost too real
to be real, if that makes any sense. (126)
Now that I’m back here in the
earthly realm, I have to process it through my limited physical body and brain.
(49)
Conveying that knowledge now is
rather like being a chimpanzee, becoming human for a single day...and then
returning to one’s chimp friends and trying to tell them what it was like. (83)
It’s like trying to write a novel
with only half the alphabet. (72)
Nostalgic return
I was overcome by an overwhelming sense of homecoming and felt
fully the tragedy of having forgotten this dimension for so long. (69)
You don’t know the place. Or at
least you think you don’t. But as you look around, something pulls at you, and
you realize that a part of yourself…does remember the place after all, and is
rejoicing at being back there again. (39)
On the day that the doors of Heaven
were closed to me [in the NDE], I felt a sense of sadness unlike any I’d ever
known. (102)
Multi-universe and being
It explained that we had left time…[I] felt like time was
simply one of the many creative experiments of the multidimensional universe I
was being shown. (70)
I saw the abundance of life throughout
the countless universes…I saw that there are countless higher dimensions, but
that the only way to know these dimensions is to enter and experience them
directly…The world of time and space in which we move in this terrestrial realm
is tightly and intricately meshed within these higher worlds. (48)
Love as center of universe
Behind creation lies a LOVE of extraordinary proportions,
and all of existence is an expression of this love. The intelligence of the
universe’s design is equally matched by the depth of love that inspired it.
(70)
Love is, without a doubt, the basis
of everything…This is the realities of realities. (71)
You are loved and cherished, dearly,
forever. (41)
Truth as harmony in being
I learned by becoming what I was knowing. I discovered the
universe not by knowing it from the outside, but by turning to that level in my
being where I was that thing. (74)
It seemed that you could not look at
or listen to anything in this world without becoming a part of it—without
joining with it in some mysterious way. (44)
I feel it, laid into my very being.
(49)
Speechless communication
[A Presence] communed with me and ‘spoke’ to me in messages
that were only sometimes put into words. It was explaining to me what I was
experiencing not so much with words as with direct illumination. (274)
Without using words, she spoke to
me. The message went through me like a wind, and I instantly understood that it
was true. (40)
Each time I silently posed one of
these questions, the answer came instantly in an explosion of light, color,
love and beauty that blew through me like a crashing wave. [These answers came]
in a way that bypassed language. Thoughts entered me directly. (46)
Freedom from existential limits and rules
This being was setting us free, placing absolutely no limits
on our creative abilities. (274)
“You have nothing to fear. There is
nothing you can do wrong.” The message flooded me with a vast and crazy
sensation of relief. It was like being handed the rules to a game I’d been
playing all my life without ever fully understanding it.